"The way to expectations of life"

Does all our problem start with expectation?or out of a need?One of my friend said that expectation is the root cause of all the problems...If a person does not expect than he/she will never be indecisive. While another said that expectations should be restricted to only work place, where in one expect a sucessful result as a return to the efforts put forward.

But I think expectation is something that arises out of the word 'need', which is the basis for all relationships. For example, if we take friendship itself, it is born out of a need. A need for someone to be there for you,with whom a person in his/her growing years can share those thought processes or developments through which they can understand a complete different viewpoint of the big bad world outside. A perspective completely different from that of what there family members show.

But when a need is fulfilled, it gives birth to an expectation. So once we have a friend, we expect them to do certain things for us, be at certain places for us and also undersatand and care for us. Which they anyway do most of the times. So what is it that has changed...

Every need has a saturation level. This is not only true in case of non-living things but also human beings. I needed a friend today I got one... Man you are damn lucky.Tomorrow, the need may not be as same as today.Than does it effect status of the relationship. It's tough to say, most people would disagree with it, but I would agree. Because as I have posted earlier everything changes in this world.Nothing is static, or constant. But the survival of every relationship depends upon the time it passes through, the stages it sees.

I believe if you have given your best to anything it will always come back to you with best of results. Do not worry, or be afraid of what happens or changes with time. These are just chapters of events which unfolds as the time passes, and unveils the entire book of life. Thats when we understand the meaning of the word "expectation".

"DECIBEL" My moment of the day

Today was an extra-ordinary day of my life. The launch of the Bangalore's first internet radio by any college"DECIBEL-Loud and Clear". In the morning everything was so confusing. I saw all my classmates running here and there, working for something or the other and all praying the same thing that lets hope everything goes well as per the schedule. And to our good luck everything went well. But, my great moment came when the Guest of Honour Mr. Geoffrey Thomas announced the launch of the website by ringing the bell and me sitting in the controlling room was supposed to click on the website link which had been shown to the audience through the big screen.

I don't know how did I get this opportunity to be the first one to do that, but all I can think of is may be it was destined to be like this. I was over-whelmed for a few seconds, but it also made me realise certain things one of which is that hardwork never goes waste. For every good work done there is always someone there to recognise it. All you need is be patient and believe in yourself.

But as if that was not enough, there happened another great moment wherein the person I respect a lot and take inspirations from, one of the Fathers, whom I have known as a student and now as a faculty, acknowledged me for my hard work and dedication.

I don't know which was the bigger moment. The one with which the day started or the other which I recieved in the later part of the day. But watever, it was one thing that I'm completely sure of is that it had been one of those few moments in my life which I would never ever forget.And something that makes me think again that there is always someone looking after you, even whether or not you feel its prescence.